shibala

my neighbor same shit.... always complains and yelling and screaming.  present herself like the world revolves around her.   as Chinese, we usually just 息事寧人.  then one day, i fired back, confronted her, just basically give her idea of you are not weak you just dun wanna fight but you have to you will, then they will 收斂一點.  

of coz' sometimes you don't want to not be able to nicely say hi to look each other in the eye, but if things got out of hand, then you can't really always be the one who suck everything in.