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% K- @, w! k ]( f$ x' f3 n公仔箱論壇Greece's financial crisis has made some families so desperate they are giving up the most precious thing of all - their children.
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; U! L5 Z J1 s: Z4 \- POne morning a few weeks before Christmas a kindergarten teacher in Athens found a note about one of her four-year-old pupils.; m; Z) K6 y" [8 W- m% k
"I will not be coming to pick up Anna today because I cannot afford to look after her," it read. "Please take good care of her. Sorry. Her mother."公仔箱論壇+ D. S- h% F; K4 @- E
In the last two months Father Antonios, a young Orthodox priest who runs a youth centre for the city's poor, has found four children on his doorstep - including a baby just days old. Another charity was approached by a couple whose twin babies were in hospital being treated for malnutrition, because the mother herself was malnourished and unable to breastfeed. Cases like this are shocking a country where family ties are strong, and failure to look after children is socially unacceptable - they feel to Greeks like stories from the Third World, rather than their own capital city. 0 X6 K; F0 }, j
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8 L* l+ _! T& v& ]Stefanos Alevizos - Greek psychologist
9 c0 m# X3 y) n: _( a5 f6 D Parents who are not able to provide for their child will feel despair, loneliness and anger. They will carry an enormous weight of cultural stigma and shame.
: j1 e Y) h8 T- m5.39.217.76 Children absorb the emotions of their parents, so the child will internalise all the feelings of their parent - particularly guilt. Often they feel they are to blame.公仔箱論壇, P5 [ o: Z! H
Children taken into care may avoid forming a bond with their carers because they are afraid it would be a betrayal of their parent, and might mean their mother or father will not return for them.TVBNOW 含有熱門話題,最新最快電視,軟體,遊戲,電影,動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。2 l" a5 U8 c4 V+ s
When they get older, they are likely to have problems with trust and that will manifest itself in difficulties with relationships. |