momoko_lam

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natasha_cheung 發表於 2012-12-31 10:49 PM

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natasha_cheung

同意, 同政治人物一樣, 未得手什麼都得, 得了手什麼都唔得.

Boyboy1207

Actually, did you said "No" before? and what's his reaction if you say "no"?公仔箱論壇; S3 d% W8 A" A4 Z
If he loves you, he will respect you.
$ i8 [1 a2 c3 _/ d  LIf he still want to have action after you say no....  he is too over... not respect you... not love you... why stay with him?
1 J/ T" h6 Z) {/ F" oMaybe get him a test, for next 2-3weeks......if he wants have sex... find reason to say no..... maybe say, you too tired from work, too much pressure from work... and see what he will say....   k$ r+ S4 H4 q' K0 a' D
Not just one or two times.... you must ZERO sex with him during this 2-3 weeks.....
! l) m2 z7 Y) S- M! I公仔箱論壇If he loves you, he will help you think of solution.....
; P& g9 T) v6 KThis way, you can give yourself a chance o rest..... a chance to think about your relationship.....

fidodidow2k

年輕就是這樣.一日七次郎.' \1 r) j# K$ }! m  [* K
等你上了年紀.七日一次郎.6 e- z& J+ b" v3 r! u8 B
好好珍惜享受吧.

nothing415

其實也不用想得那麼灰, 當然是你還想和他走下去.公仔箱論壇" H5 w/ n! Z$ H/ X" v
我覺得你應該選擇和他討論這問題, 看看他有什麼反映, 是否會為你設想.tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb6 `3 ~3 F5 J( C/ L
如果他會為你想, 那只是大家的溝通問題, 有了溝通及體諒,問題也更容易解決.& p! ~8 P9 \  T2 D+ K  C' I
但如果他不理會你,及體諒你, 那他也表明了他的立牆.
; @+ ^+ a2 @: m# t5 @2 _那到時才決定要再走下去,還是分開了.
3 Y+ T: }" J. @+ J. \, ]而且可能他也有他的擔心, 才會一時忘了你的感受.公仔箱論壇' |, `; Q  N% ]8 r! n
多一點溝通吧.tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb' C3 |$ q# d" A! [& o; o  K

# v9 H' I: _. ?4 z8 m$ ]) d公仔箱論壇每個人不是十全十美和相處也不同, 只要你肯接受他的缺點, 他也接受你的缺點就好了.TVBNOW 含有熱門話題，最新最快電視，軟體，遊戲，電影，動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。, x" Q: ]5 i2 w9 D' }6 O
好像有一些情侶一星期都不見一次, 但如果你問我,我不能的, 我寧願等他十個鐘, 就只為了送他回家的見面時間也是值得的.

momoko_lam

我當然有SAY NO, 他的反應唔開心囉, 之後行吓街成日唔出聲, 通常我都話要走先...* L( ~- ^) Y& L: ?
都係返工, 朝早做到夜, 唔疲倦就講嘢啦, 好似今晚大班FRIEND 落PUB, 我都無去, 我成十點先見完客, 再返屋企換衫出嚟, 我就唔出啦, 休息吓, 聽日重有客見.   o1 m6 k5 h5 h; h6 }
佢地唔同重讀書, 時間、心態、生活都唔同.

natasha_cheung

妳係唔係大過你男朋友? 似乎妳做呢份工, 做得好辛苦, 好大壓力. 時間, 朋友........., 都無曬.

momoko_lam

我男朋友大過我, 但係我要做嘢搵食, 幫屋企人, 佢屋企人有D錢, 叫佢讀呢樣,又讀果樣, 其實我都叫過佢, 讀唔到就搵嘢做啦, 佢又唔聽, 次次唔係轉科、就轉校..........
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" b" v" w; u0 `# Ttvb now,tvbnow,bttvb做嘢 , 梗係辛苦, 搵錢就是如此, 加上我呢D人, 經驗無, 學歷無, 更加辛苦

markhamwong

No love , no love.
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natasha_cheung

妳同男朋友拍了拖好耐?

momoko_lam

大約三年度啦

natasha_cheung

三年幾耐, 他是否一向都要求(SEX)很多?

momoko_lam

不是, 我只是一年多前開始有性生活, 或者當時仍然讀書時間比較多, 唔覺得好頻密, 一星期都有一至兩次.

natasha_cheung

看來大家生活型式不同之後出現問題, 現在妳開始工作時間不多, 而他需求增加.....

momoko_lam

或者他需求增加, 或者時間, 環境等因素, 好似趕住做, 做完又趕住走. 因為他得不到滿足, 我感到有時他的持久力下降不少.