momoko_lam

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" D0 d3 n4 q+ m) |! g6 Xnatasha_cheung 發表於 2012-12-31 10:49 PM

# n9 ~: k) r" q- D+ p" d- ^' x5.39.217.76男人永遠講得.

natasha_cheung

同意, 同政治人物一樣, 未得手什麼都得, 得了手什麼都唔得.

Boyboy1207

Actually, did you said "No" before? and what's his reaction if you say "no"?5.39.217.76! C* J: M% y9 O) p, B) h' {
If he loves you, he will respect you.公仔箱論壇: S& X4 d2 N& j& _& ?
If he still want to have action after you say no....  he is too over... not respect you... not love you... why stay with him?
# B) |* j' u- ?7 v* D; h, \Maybe get him a test, for next 2-3weeks......if he wants have sex... find reason to say no..... maybe say, you too tired from work, too much pressure from work... and see what he will say....
% {! \; f4 C2 K1 C5.39.217.76Not just one or two times.... you must ZERO sex with him during this 2-3 weeks.....
% W( r* V" _5 P3 B8 mIf he loves you, he will help you think of solution.....
: Y2 M7 R4 D/ H8 P& e* Y9 B7 [: E7 JThis way, you can give yourself a chance o rest..... a chance to think about your relationship.....

fidodidow2k

年輕就是這樣.一日七次郎.tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb7 I6 ]5 i! w" p- ?" f- V) `8 P
等你上了年紀.七日一次郎.0 X; R8 J" R- c7 l8 g. o* H
好好珍惜享受吧.

nothing415

其實也不用想得那麼灰, 當然是你還想和他走下去.
4 F* b" o# A1 I1 W) U我覺得你應該選擇和他討論這問題, 看看他有什麼反映, 是否會為你設想.
* v( `7 F1 C0 l- |$ p$ Stvb now,tvbnow,bttvb如果他會為你想, 那只是大家的溝通問題, 有了溝通及體諒,問題也更容易解決.
+ b$ V7 @3 _/ N/ t: ltvb now,tvbnow,bttvb但如果他不理會你,及體諒你, 那他也表明了他的立牆.tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb, Z5 S( S) o& K9 L' d
那到時才決定要再走下去,還是分開了.tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb$ e. e; L. S  `3 f+ y
而且可能他也有他的擔心, 才會一時忘了你的感受.( H' a8 m, o% ^
多一點溝通吧.公仔箱論壇# G/ o( {; h0 _; X1 ~) ?+ ~" J
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每個人不是十全十美和相處也不同, 只要你肯接受他的缺點, 他也接受你的缺點就好了.
7 t; a/ h$ u: i9 W% K5 `好像有一些情侶一星期都不見一次, 但如果你問我,我不能的, 我寧願等他十個鐘, 就只為了送他回家的見面時間也是值得的.

momoko_lam

我當然有SAY NO, 他的反應唔開心囉, 之後行吓街成日唔出聲, 通常我都話要走先...( {* I3 I2 W7 p0 K
都係返工, 朝早做到夜, 唔疲倦就講嘢啦, 好似今晚大班FRIEND 落PUB, 我都無去, 我成十點先見完客, 再返屋企換衫出嚟, 我就唔出啦, 休息吓, 聽日重有客見. 公仔箱論壇" ^) X( n( i" Q3 ^2 Q# D: |
佢地唔同重讀書, 時間、心態、生活都唔同.

natasha_cheung

妳係唔係大過你男朋友? 似乎妳做呢份工, 做得好辛苦, 好大壓力. 時間, 朋友........., 都無曬.

momoko_lam

我男朋友大過我, 但係我要做嘢搵食, 幫屋企人, 佢屋企人有D錢, 叫佢讀呢樣,又讀果樣, 其實我都叫過佢, 讀唔到就搵嘢做啦, 佢又唔聽, 次次唔係轉科、就轉校..........! f, ~6 P: ~8 N- `5 G* b

; @( p0 P4 P5 ~  y* Y! T做嘢 , 梗係辛苦, 搵錢就是如此, 加上我呢D人, 經驗無, 學歷無, 更加辛苦

markhamwong

No love , no love.
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natasha_cheung

妳同男朋友拍了拖好耐?

momoko_lam

大約三年度啦

natasha_cheung

三年幾耐, 他是否一向都要求(SEX)很多?

momoko_lam

不是, 我只是一年多前開始有性生活, 或者當時仍然讀書時間比較多, 唔覺得好頻密, 一星期都有一至兩次.

natasha_cheung

看來大家生活型式不同之後出現問題, 現在妳開始工作時間不多, 而他需求增加.....

momoko_lam

或者他需求增加, 或者時間, 環境等因素, 好似趕住做, 做完又趕住走. 因為他得不到滿足, 我感到有時他的持久力下降不少.