[散文分享] 爱的方式 (04-12-12)

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5 ]5 W# B) I; T! I$ F+ L很多人爱的方式是这样的：tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb1 y) V  Q2 |" \# v

" y8 l$ X0 u" `; _5 E8 W: |tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb如果你符合我心目中的形象，我就爱你。& v6 d7 ?" D# p3 V/ h% \/ g
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因为我爱你，所以我就把你雕塑成我心目中完美的形象，5.39.217.76* S# c. y$ p$ Z' U, y7 h6 t
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于是，我就拿起我的刀（指责、要求、愤怒等）不断地以爱的名誉去雕塑你。
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/ q7 d, e" @, C9 G/ v却不知对方早已鲜血淋漓、伤痕累累。5.39.217.76! \( T, Q0 a8 `8 g. R

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love people as the way they are, respect them and be curious about them instead of trying to change them to fit them into your pre-defined model of how they should be.