聰明老人幸福十誡
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“Ten taboos to happiness” for the intelligent aged persons
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一、不要再替成年子女操心,才不會碎碎唸。 * e1 y# ]0 g' ^7 T
Don’t be concerned about adult children any more, otherwise, cannot stop the annoying chatters. ) r0 k0 s! D5 I' v- x) b! c
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二、不要再將成年子女當成未成年來「監護」,以免顧人怨。
* J" G9 E& ]3 b7 p U公仔箱論壇Don’t regard the adult children as of under age and serve as a guardian for them, so to avoid incurring complaints.
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三、不必事事都「非知道不可」,尊重已成年子女的隱私權、自主權。
/ k% a: w' t! b/ j7 U- \5.39.217.76No necessary to know everything, pay respect to the privacy and the right of decision-making of adult children.
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四、不要再以兒、孫為生活重心,尋找自己的園地,才不致天天望穿秋水。 TVBNOW 含有熱門話題,最新最快電視,軟體,遊戲,電影,動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。# T/ ~% U3 q6 t$ W
Don’t regard children and grandchildren as a center of life, look for personal social circles, so to avoid trapping yourself in the dilemma of anxious expectation and disappointment daily. tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb* z; L' g+ T0 M& t6 c3 o
8 N: K" w+ b( I7 S4 Z五、不要逢人就訴苦,寧可寫作、畫畫、練功、唱歌,以藝術、創作昇華情緒。 TVBNOW 含有熱門話題,最新最快電視,軟體,遊戲,電影,動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。+ Z% s: x; ^) e
Raise a habit of writing, painting, exercising, singing to sublime your mood by arts and creation rather than complain to people coming across. 5.39.217.761 K5 a- W2 K( `4 Y
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六、不要凡事抱怨,多欣賞、感謝別人為取悅你所做的努力。
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七、不要因孫輩和子女媳婿爭執衝突,這樣只會惡性循環,害了你的孫輩。
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八、不要因病痛而唉唉叫,有病要治病,領了藥要服藥,治不好的要忍耐。
5 K2 Q! g5 i6 ^/ b; J3 b5.39.217.76Don’t cry over sickness, just go to see a doctor and take the necessary medical pills as prescribed, and be patient if failed to cure.
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九、不要疑心病太重,要感激還願意留在你身邊的人,免得最後連他也走了! 9 O, y( O4 f. W4 x* v5 A# @: A. c' E
Don’t be skeptical to others too much, be grateful to the person who left around you, otherwise, he will go away from you too eventually. ) r8 q( d$ P0 z4 W$ F5 G
5 W @' V2 j0 i. Z _0 v十、要多多親近神,有堅定的信仰,對未來抱著開心、樂觀的態度。
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如果以上十點,每一點是十分,祝福各位聰明的老人,都能幸福一百分。
. [' d/ V( q5 |If each item of these ten taboos above counts a score of ten, wish you all so intelligent to get a lucky one hundred. |