[疑難求助] 你曾經是第三者嗎?

jennchl

請問有誰曾經第三者?  我愛上了一個已有女朋友的男人.
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6 Y' i0 z  j- {& d( R) Z公仔箱論壇和他做了好朋友三年, 最近大家才對大家表白, 才知道大家已經一直喜歡對方但沒有表白.0 ]2 K' `3 {: |2 J2 u
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我們深愛著對方, 可惜不知道應該怎麼辦, 他跟他的女朋友已經十三年了, 並且是同居, 我不是很樂觀, 有時候真的很想要他認真的選擇和決定, 可是我非常害怕聽到一個不想聽的答案, 所以遲遲都沒有問.
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4 Q6 q4 e& d  `以前也會和他的女朋友大家成群的出去, 現在因為他的女朋友感覺到我和這男人的感覺, 所以她很討厭我, 並要這男人跟我斷絕來往.  現在我們只能用有限的時間通通電話和吃飯. 他很失落, 他說他很害怕失去我, 我亦很害怕失去他.
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請問大家, 我做錯了, 是否應該退出? 還是主動爭取?

jennchl

any suggestions?

guandesu

愛情沒有對錯,或許只有愛錯

十年一剑

给他限定一个时间，做出选择。

jennchl

I'm so scared of hearing the NO answer....

icceti

are you making a choice or are you letting him make the decision?7 z) @% v5 n/ a9 [# [1 c: E7 L# i
if you truly do not want to leave him then fight.
' S. o2 i7 j% F公仔箱論壇at least give it a try.  
2 T/ W, P/ o1 z1 G, @0 ?% Qbut you can't say after a few years of being with you, he won't fall in love with someone else.
0 i& Q5 M/ D. b) a5.39.217.76if you are letting him decide, then give yourself a time limit so you won't be waiting for him for the rest of your life without an answer.5.39.217.76% q- q4 d; Q, t1 C' \
a no is better than none.  you'll suffer even more watching them get married, have kids and you are alone by yourself.5.39.217.76' i" C9 }/ p, N
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[ 本帖最後由 icceti 於 2009-4-11 01:01 AM 編輯 ]

tommyjai

i have hear someone told that公仔箱論壇4 y8 w0 p( y8 _: [* |" D
if u scare to get reject
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xiehuoli

建议你退出吧

beckham07sky

Ask him to make a decision.
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* j- c! N* h' A5.39.217.76If not, i think you better leave this self-fish man. Don't love a man not care to your feeling.公仔箱論壇5 U/ U' E- ?, Y
YOU MUST THINK TO YOUR FURTURE. 5.39.217.767 [: C: ~, M+ Z/ f# F
Please don't as stupid as me before.
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dream1972

天下何处无“杂草”？何必和人争？十三年的感情，他今天能这样对他目前的女朋友，难保他十三年后“主角”换你当了，所以请三思。。。

xxx728

给他限定一个时间，做出选择。
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一針見血i agree with that5.39.217.76/ V- S% ?& a; L/ E, d: K) m
要理性,不要沉溺於悲劇主角的感覺啊!

kathy1234

其实我也和你一样~也是喜欢一个有女友了的男生~我每次听到他说他和女友出去~或陪女友而没找我~我听到会很失落~
5 e- Q1 S$ p3 P6 x' I6 u' b但是毕竟我不是他的谁~他既然有女友了~就应该祝福他~5.39.217.76* O+ K, d* w/ d4 l
不应破坏他们的感情~13年的感情不是说完就完的~
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你好好想吧~如果真的喜欢他~不一定要和他一起~可以祝福他啊~* g: x, I. u6 ~% \6 e2 x# X
或许我的想法与你不同~但这纯属我个人意见啦~TVBNOW 含有熱門話題，最新最快電視，軟體，遊戲，電影，動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。3 Y# I3 s* o. q/ |4 M" z" D/ F0 f$ {
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