I would suggest you to give up the relationship. I had a similar situation. I was living with my bf for 2 years now, and end up breaking up. He had cheated on me last year, and he begged me for a chance. Lately, I found out that he and the third person never broke up. He had been lying to me and the third person for 9 months, and he ends up telling me he wants to be with the third person. I tell you this just want you to understand you are like gambling if you choose to take her back. People always say "Once a cheater, always a cheater". I don't believe it when it happened to me, but I experienced and it is true. So, it's up to you if you want to give her a try or end the relationship so that you don't have to suffer anymore. Also, I truely believe that if she loves you enough, she will never cheated on you. That means she doubts the love between you two and choose to cheat which you might need to consider if she worths you to take her back...... |