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Greece's financial crisis has made some families so desperate they are giving up the most precious thing of all - their children.
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One morning a few weeks before Christmas a kindergarten teacher in Athens found a note about one of her four-year-old pupils.tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb1 w7 h' o' Y) x5 H
"I will not be coming to pick up Anna today because I cannot afford to look after her," it read. "Please take good care of her. Sorry. Her mother."
* y {% M- Q* m( ~7 S% Q" WTVBNOW 含有熱門話題,最新最快電視,軟體,遊戲,電影,動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。In the last two months Father Antonios, a young Orthodox priest who runs a youth centre for the city's poor, has found four children on his doorstep - including a baby just days old. Another charity was approached by a couple whose twin babies were in hospital being treated for malnutrition, because the mother herself was malnourished and unable to breastfeed. Cases like this are shocking a country where family ties are strong, and failure to look after children is socially unacceptable - they feel to Greeks like stories from the Third World, rather than their own capital city.
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Stefanos Alevizos - Greek psychologisttvb now,tvbnow,bttvb4 ]7 C9 Q$ e6 U+ y) B+ ]' X% q% g
Parents who are not able to provide for their child will feel despair, loneliness and anger. They will carry an enormous weight of cultural stigma and shame.
3 V9 ?/ E' U% ~% v7 [) T+ H Children absorb the emotions of their parents, so the child will internalise all the feelings of their parent - particularly guilt. Often they feel they are to blame.
0 s; n6 N$ v% M. D5 m3 v( ?8 ~公仔箱論壇 Children taken into care may avoid forming a bond with their carers because they are afraid it would be a betrayal of their parent, and might mean their mother or father will not return for them.
" O$ l" g0 h; T' K5.39.217.76 When they get older, they are likely to have problems with trust and that will manifest itself in difficulties with relationships. |