i'm a man and let me tell you like a man. it's hard to get over the first love. i can personally attest to it. i've been happily married with children for years now. i'm not going to tell you how long. just long.
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; [) k6 f, Y, T e" P5.39.217.76i love my wife, my kids and my family. but deep in my mind, i still remember the girl i fell in love for the first time. but i always remember one thing. there should be line drawn between reality and fantasy. / c" m0 Y& D7 Y9 z4 ^. I/ O. d$ M0 T
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for me reality is very real and a fantasy is just a bubble. as long as you don't let your bubble inflates too large, it won't burst and you can always have it.
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if a married man let his fantasy get out f hand, it could turn into a disaster -- just like the Hindenburg. |