請問有誰曾經第三者? 我愛上了一個已有女朋友的男人. # [5 q; m) F& C! t; j# X+ _+ `5.39.217.76tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb" \+ K' z. p) h3 v7 @2 u7 j e$ \
和他做了好朋友三年, 最近大家才對大家表白, 才知道大家已經一直喜歡對方但沒有表白. # K! N% A% ~9 Y, r. l: J; r9 r" Y
我們深愛著對方, 可惜不知道應該怎麼辦, 他跟他的女朋友已經十三年了, 並且是同居, 我不是很樂觀, 有時候真的很想要他認真的選擇和決定, 可是我非常害怕聽到一個不想聽的答案, 所以遲遲都沒有問. * q3 T m8 \# O! N5.39.217.760 ~$ E7 w+ t# D5 s, M
以前也會和他的女朋友大家成群的出去, 現在因為他的女朋友感覺到我和這男人的感覺, 所以她很討厭我, 並要這男人跟我斷絕來往. 現在我們只能用有限的時間通通電話和吃飯. 他很失落, 他說他很害怕失去我, 我亦很害怕失去他.公仔箱論壇7 l* { L) j5 Z% _) ~% f
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請問大家, 我做錯了, 是否應該退出? 還是主動爭取?作者: jennchl 時間: 2009-4-9 05:42 AM 標題: anyone?
any suggestions?作者: guandesu 時間: 2009-4-9 08:52 AM
愛情沒有對錯,或許只有愛錯作者: 十年一剑 時間: 2009-4-10 08:18 PM
给他限定一个时间，做出选择。作者: jennchl 時間: 2009-4-11 09:39 AM
I'm so scared of hearing the NO answer....作者: icceti 時間: 2009-4-11 01:55 PM
are you making a choice or are you letting him make the decision? , H4 o5 g8 S1 M1 M: G& g% Nif you truly do not want to leave him then fight.5.39.217.76" {" A3 L- @: X
at least give it a try. & ]- L) W$ e# O4 c# L/ Q5.39.217.76but you can't say after a few years of being with you, he won't fall in love with someone else.公仔箱論壇4 F) a( F0 F8 o/ Y1 F
if you are letting him decide, then give yourself a time limit so you won't be waiting for him for the rest of your life without an answer./ b6 ]4 G: B x
a no is better than none. you'll suffer even more watching them get married, have kids and you are alone by yourself. $ R! t( @' y! F$ ?2 p. w. o% G公仔箱論壇tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb2 ]9 E, ^4 E* @) y
[ 本帖最後由 icceti 於 2009-4-11 01:01 AM 編輯 ]作者: tommyjai 時間: 2009-4-12 08:44 PM
i have hear someone told that ( j" k/ U$ S3 j* q3 X% i公仔箱論壇if u scare to get reject 0 b. S/ a# I: ~/ ]- I公仔箱論壇u should reject before it rejects u作者: xiehuoli 時間: 2009-4-13 03:53 PM
建议你退出吧作者: beckham07sky 時間: 2009-5-15 08:59 PM
Ask him to make a decision. - X( G" u) R/ J, h% U: o2 Q% ]If he really care about lost you, he must do that. 6 c" p' S1 y! o+ w# s; b3 B, w, RIf not, i think you better leave this self-fish man. Don't love a man not care to your feeling. 2 F" q, |8 a8 [/ x5 [! t5.39.217.76YOU MUST THINK TO YOUR FURTURE. 公仔箱論壇0 a7 p2 ~% n0 O4 x. z
Please don't as stupid as me before. ' k6 l- E3 R$ \; W5 [$ `% o* yTVBNOW 含有熱門話題，最新最快電視，軟體，遊戲，電影，動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。GOOD LUCK!!作者: dream1972 時間: 2009-5-16 11:37 AM
，所以请三思。。。
