7 i( k8 t. t& D* \TVBNOW 含有熱門話題,最新最快電視,軟體,遊戲,電影,動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。這時候,如果身邊的伴侶可以陪你一起閱讀,可以跟你一起分享,可以跟你一同成長,並且有時間真正認真的聽妳所說的話,那樣的人生還是有意義且充實快樂的,每當自己讀了一本書之後,就等著與伴侶一起分享,也想聽聽他最近所學的新東西,分享他在閱讀中所產生的新思維,而當女人興沖沖的要與配偶分享的時候,得到的卻是他冷漠且以忙碌當推託的藉口時!" u: d( D; M& f5 j+ W8 C4 t
那樣的挫敗,只會讓這個女人從此對他的男人封閉自己的心!! 1 R7 J+ [0 t) U ( T# h2 g" V" l+ ~, }2 M. S5 a6 j. ktvb now,tvbnow,bttvb不管任何一個人,當你在進步的時候,面對了一個不進步的伴侶,那樣的無力與感傷其實是很沉重的,即使你想盡辦法,想要拉他一起進步,他卻無動於衷且覺得你在為難他,那樣的挫折感更是讓人難以承受! : _- a4 ^ d V/ ttvb now,tvbnow,bttvb而愛情,在一次次的感慨中慢慢的消逝,如果婚姻中剩下的只是,一個女人站在自己家中的窗旁,看著外面蔚藍的天空,翻騰的心想要衝破這扇窗飛到遠遠的地方去,然而心中的一個小聲音卻說著:『他對我很好,所以我不能離開!』 & J* T% s+ Y) e8 X
心想飛腳卻如綁上鉛塊一般沉重到無法離開!!公仔箱論壇; E* i. d; a- d F; H
這樣的婚姻是不是充滿了悲哀!!! 1 D" X* G( r# Q: i$ ]5 ltvb now,tvbnow,bttvb公仔箱論壇3 g4 M3 R" s) _8 U( s$ w
而這樣的悲哀與哀怨,或許在某一天的餐桌上,丈夫不經意的一句話,TVBNOW 含有熱門話題,最新最快電視,軟體,遊戲,電影,動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。" n: l+ C7 Z! ?7 k" a4 G- Y
敲醒了女人的心,告訴自己,自己不可以隨著這樣不長進的男人毀了自己的一生,而這樣的頓悟,也就敲開了腳上的鐵鍊,脫離了鉛塊,毅然而然的離去,這兩個女人,告訴了我這樣的體認!!也給了我深深的感觸!!! tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb' J3 k3 |% Y% h8 I- {! Y
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因此~如果有一天,枕邊人告訴你:『該讀一點書了!』tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb/ J# } t* R) H7 J" M, v* Q! J
或是苦口婆心的跟你說:『這本書很棒你看一下!』 / u2 n( W7 K; |2 @
請你不要虛應一下說忙,或是瞄一眼就丟旁邊!1 | T! ~/ N4 l9 d. H
那樣的動作很傷人,也把別人的用心放在地上踩!" v2 S' Y; @: n8 B
或許,當你的枕邊人跟你說這句話的時候,他只是想為他的婚姻做最後的努力,公仔箱論壇2 y8 z6 q9 a6 \+ w* B2 v5 w% [- Q
這也許是她在跟你求救,因為或許,她想要告訴你的是:TVBNOW 含有熱門話題,最新最快電視,軟體,遊戲,電影,動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。1 I9 A! e1 j: f4 b$ E
『親愛的!!追上來吧!!我不想有一天,我在內心深處對貧乏的你揚起淡淡的嫌棄!!』 親愛的~~我想跟你一起邁步向前!! 作者: lsj6473886 時間: 2009-3-2 01:18 PM
你是否已经结婚?站在女人的角度 你说的都是正确的;但是站在一个男人的立场 又太多无奈 ... 那么就让女人工作,让男人也去学习吧作者: alcheng0081 時間: 2009-3-3 07:09 AM
I understand your point of view, however, do you think you look at the matter only from the stand-point of female, those house wives in the story. 5.39.217.769 }+ i/ `: b! q' }
$ c. c7 _2 o1 K/ {+ A( mTVBNOW 含有熱門話題,最新最快電視,軟體,遊戲,電影,動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。I agree female have to give out and give up almost their whole life to the family and kids, but isn't the husband the same?5.39.217.76( v- M5 e, A; `0 x- p
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If you are the only person who is financially supporting the family, do you know how much pressure and worry you are facing??? , X2 a+ ^* a" I6 ^. a2 C) k' x$ Z; |5.39.217.76 ) t7 n( H" }# x( P8 I公仔箱論壇Relatively, house wives also facing problem and pressure such as looking after the kids and have to make sure everything runs properly in the house, I say both husband and wife are facing the same level of pressure, but just different kind. ) d9 q# J9 J5 f- E& D+ q公仔箱論壇 , q7 Y! k& T* ^: ~TVBNOW 含有熱門話題,最新最快電視,軟體,遊戲,電影,動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。I actually feel sorry for the husbands in this story, when they are working so hard and try to give the best support to the family, they even support their wife to upgrade their education, wihch cost a big portion from the income, in exchange, what they got in return is being looked-down by their wife. What a shame!!!tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb5 A8 n9 F: }% t& I
TVBNOW 含有熱門話題,最新最快電視,軟體,遊戲,電影,動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。. Q3 \/ z' C$ R6 X
Well, from another way of thinking, I think it is good for them to devoice, since their wife does not really love them once they think there's a ''better world'' out there.6 M1 ], a# G& G% ]3 W8 I4 t! N
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If you think your partner, whether it's your husband or your wife, is not good enough, or he/ she is going backward, you don't just leave him/ her, you'll find a way to improve him, to improve the relationship. : U& p S% A- y; Y8 _" O5.39.217.76 2 M( ]! Z% p0 A& S5 p8 L: g' qTHIS IS HOW YOU LOVE SOMEONE AND KEEP THE RELATIONSHIP HEALTHY. . N+ h; `; {0 E e
/ \- y: M( u5 y8 l4 `' o/ ]TVBNOW 含有熱門話題,最新最快電視,軟體,遊戲,電影,動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。Not just leave them in-responsibly like this and find something you think is better.5.39.217.76. z. B! h" B& a ^1 K$ y