標題: [歐洲] Greek Parents too poor to Care for their Children [打印本頁] 作者: kimmi8k 時間: 2012-1-11 05:57 AM 標題: Greek Parents too poor to Care for their Children
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, N& u% ~4 X h公仔箱論壇Greece's financial crisis has made some families so desperate they are giving up the most precious thing of all - their children. / g. w4 S9 }7 Y9 b0 R7 t# G 3 M3 i( W0 x! a2 d7 s公仔箱論壇One morning a few weeks before Christmas a kindergarten teacher in Athens found a note about one of her four-year-old pupils.! K3 g% `/ U. t
"I will not be coming to pick up Anna today because I cannot afford to look after her," it read. "Please take good care of her. Sorry. Her mother." 5 A2 a2 o ]# g" K; U2 Q! f; xTVBNOW 含有熱門話題,最新最快電視,軟體,遊戲,電影,動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。In the last two months Father Antonios, a young Orthodox priest who runs a youth centre for the city's poor, has found four children on his doorstep - including a baby just days old. Another charity was approached by a couple whose twin babies were in hospital being treated for malnutrition, because the mother herself was malnourished and unable to breastfeed. Cases like this are shocking a country where family ties are strong, and failure to look after children is socially unacceptable - they feel to Greeks like stories from the Third World, rather than their own capital city. 5.39.217.76# ?/ D( t, a e' Y
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1 q; q# M4 F- a* n, X* Z# f; e Stefanos Alevizos - Greek psychologist公仔箱論壇! Q! I! q& l2 Y- ~0 i) h
Parents who are not able to provide for their child will feel despair, loneliness and anger. They will carry an enormous weight of cultural stigma and shame.0 x! l' a. \$ e$ ]
Children absorb the emotions of their parents, so the child will internalise all the feelings of their parent - particularly guilt. Often they feel they are to blame. ; x& W& L. h) q3 Q! v/ V% j( U Children taken into care may avoid forming a bond with their carers because they are afraid it would be a betrayal of their parent, and might mean their mother or father will not return for them. 1 \% T' K$ G( Z5.39.217.76 When they get older, they are likely to have problems with trust and that will manifest itself in difficulties with relationships.