聰明老人幸福十誡 ! v) R& [ f# o+ } Y; l# c& F公仔箱論壇 , J, X Y9 u i8 ]! l: I; {公仔箱論壇“Ten taboos to happiness” for the intelligent aged persons TVBNOW 含有熱門話題,最新最快電視,軟體,遊戲,電影,動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。 j4 v8 v! E$ ]; n ~4 y# S
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一、不要再替成年子女操心,才不會碎碎唸。 公仔箱論壇; r' F, W6 D( ~' \$ z
Don’t be concerned about adult children any more, otherwise, cannot stop the annoying chatters. TVBNOW 含有熱門話題,最新最快電視,軟體,遊戲,電影,動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。' a& U9 T% D# {1 j
# X: ]! _8 @' K3 g7 }5 ?; \" |4 z二、不要再將成年子女當成未成年來「監護」,以免顧人怨。 2 G5 l* Z- y4 X7 q8 H5.39.217.76Don’t regard the adult children as of under age and serve as a guardian for them, so to avoid incurring complaints. 5.39.217.76+ v: K0 N% n" \9 E% d& t
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三、不必事事都「非知道不可」,尊重已成年子女的隱私權、自主權。 ! O6 N' R3 g+ o4 a& |6 D1 @: R6 g, \3 fNo necessary to know everything, pay respect to the privacy and the right of decision-making of adult children. H4 P, [2 ?/ N" V
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Don’t regard children and grandchildren as a center of life, look for personal social circles, so to avoid trapping yourself in the dilemma of anxious expectation and disappointment daily. tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb( {& v' p$ H/ w) [& g6 U5 C
/ [# _/ P* l! `* YTVBNOW 含有熱門話題,最新最快電視,軟體,遊戲,電影,動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。五、不要逢人就訴苦,寧可寫作、畫畫、練功、唱歌,以藝術、創作昇華情緒。 公仔箱論壇9 ^2 U) F7 g( D1 ~3 x
Raise a habit of writing, painting, exercising, singing to sublime your mood by arts and creation rather than complain to people coming across. + y# O5 X0 s" F4 F. n& @. y: a, z
. |' q+ q( |" n- }* @tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb六、不要凡事抱怨,多欣賞、感謝別人為取悅你所做的努力。 ! S& |- t+ W5 o0 s& }" @公仔箱論壇More admiration, less complaints and appreciate what other people have done for pleasing you. ) B& f, u2 Q/ X
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七、不要因孫輩和子女媳婿爭執衝突,這樣只會惡性循環,害了你的孫輩。 - `+ f" \$ u. F( ] d: `
Don’t involve in the dispute between grandchildren and adult children, this act just causes adverse effects in a bad circle and hurt your grandchildren. tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb3 V: y$ b( m3 w" x0 J$ Y9 |% n. g4 F
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八、不要因病痛而唉唉叫,有病要治病,領了藥要服藥,治不好的要忍耐。 . {* j% U) H) ^% f) t# @. kDon’t cry over sickness, just go to see a doctor and take the necessary medical pills as prescribed, and be patient if failed to cure. tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb; }) Z" {3 ^6 m$ |( @5 g( J
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Don’t be skeptical to others too much, be grateful to the person who left around you, otherwise, he will go away from you too eventually. 6 I0 T7 J9 U: W5.39.217.76 $ Y- {( E P9 j( `, ~2 H/ J$ _十、要多多親近神,有堅定的信仰,對未來抱著開心、樂觀的態度。 * L1 @* Q5 b5 F* m7 F3 I5.39.217.76Participate in religious activities often, be stick to belief and take pleasant, optimistic attitudes toward the future. 公仔箱論壇" S& x1 G! F* x% r; I e5 ~; d P
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如果以上十點,每一點是十分,祝福各位聰明的老人,都能幸福一百分。 5.39.217.76* T# |6 q. A0 J" q! p
If each item of these ten taboos above counts a score of ten, wish you all so intelligent to get a lucky one hundred.