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作者: norman.ho 時間: 2011-10-19 02:48 PM 標題: I am left absolutely speechless ...

You would/should too, after you watch this ....
[youtube]OKjVuF4EgLs&rel=0[/youtube]

And I am still in shock!
And yet this incidence hardly get much of your comments.
OK. lets put it into perspective,
Yeah, some of you said RIP at the other forum, (yet I saw a lot more emotional outflow for the passing of Jobs); so what's become of you?
No, this little girl will never rest in peace!  And we should never let her rest in peace, so her very short existence would become a little more worthwhile.
What's happened to our society?  So it was an terrible accident, and the driver was so scared of the consequence, he did a hit and run.  He is definitely guilty and should be punished accordingly.
The little girl's mother is just as guilty,  how could she let her daughter wondering in a narrow busy street all by herself?  Would she do the same if that was her son?  She should get locked up for a long time too!
Now the passers by, people, bike riders, tri rider, and a mother walking pass holding the hand of her daughter, just walked pass cold heartily after having witnessed a helpless little girl who was just seriously injured in a traffic accident!  What kind of sick society is that?  The little girl was again run over by another mini van; to the driver it was an accident, but if someone did help move the girl, it wouldn't and couldn't have happened.
So all those people who saw the injured girl but didn't help, they are just as guilty as the second driver!
But the saddest part of all is, what happened to the society?  Are we trading in for the economic prosperity with our very basic humanity?!
So WAKE UP people!  Don't let this "incidence" rest, it reflect how selfish, mindless, atrocious and horrifying we have become!  The little girl will never RIP and so she shouldn't!
As a Chinese living oversea, I am ashamed, mortified and feel absolutely repugnant of the society.
I am speechless, I am in pain, and I couldn't help but to weep!

Yes, I have already posted this at 時事焦點, I truly believe that this shocking incidence should get more discussion, and I wish I could write it in Chinese too.

作者: mrfusion 時間: 2011-10-19 03:52 PM

Did Yueyue passed away? If that is the case, I do want her to RIP.

what do you mean she should not RIP, the heartless people is suppose to be the one that don't RIP.

Why did society becomes so cold-hearted?
Because there are far too many cheats that extort money from people with good heart, the Good Samaritan might be accuse to be the one responsible for her misfortune, most people becomes so scare and protective they hide away their good heart.

作者: norman.ho 時間: 2011-10-19 05:11 PM

本帖最後由 norman.ho 於 2011-10-19 05:45 PM 編輯

Did Yueyue passed away? If that is the case, I do want her to RIP.

what do you mean she should not RIP, the heartless people is suppose to be the one that don't RIP.

Yes, sadly Yueyue had passed away. When I say "she should not RIP", I am speaking figuratively; this very serious issue should never gone pass our consciousness and let to rest, Yueyue's death would be much more meaningful if we can keep discussing about it, and hopefully the society at large can learn from it, so this type of horrible event will never happened again.

On the other hand, if Yueyue did survive this accident, she would get so much media attention, and the issue might get discussed at all level of the community, parents, teachers, students, politician may all learn from this, and as long as Yueyue were still alive, we would all constantly be reminded.

Now that Yueyue had passed away, we should never let this issue rest, we should keep talking over this among ourselves, among the teachers, students, parents and politicians; making sure this does not ever happen again, no other person would get treated like a piece of dirt as how Yueyue was treated.

Yes, our society has become "so cold-hearted"; only when we speak up, raise the issue, or the society will never change to become more caring and compassionate. I still hold a little bit of optimism that if we all do our little bit, we can and will change the "cold-hearted" society.

作者: go2david 時間: 2011-10-19 06:52 PM

To be honest when I read this news I feel a shame to be a Chinese...but the reason why the people in PRC become so 'cold blood' is just because there are so many bastards in China doing cheating business every day...not so long time ago we just heard the news that a 'hot blood' guy was helping an old man who got injured on the road and brought him home was finally being cheated by that old man for a big money. Even the case was finally put on court that good guy still have to pay...so what's wrong on our country!!

作者: lilitan008 時間: 2011-10-19 09:08 PM

救人阿婆被奚落炒作

如果說，“佛山女童被輾，18路人漠視”事件是一齣人間悲劇，那麼，這齣悲劇還持續……唯一願伸手救人的拾荒阿婆陳賢妹，竟被抹黑“要出名”、“想炒作”、“博宣傳”，才會出手救人，甚至有街坊見她獲頒獎金，竟酸溜溜地說她“真好彩”，“發達了”，顯示中國社會價值觀已經被嚴重扭曲。上週四，廣東省佛山市女童小悅悅先後被2輛貨車輾過，躺在血泊中奄奄一息，但隨後7分鐘經過她身旁的18名路人視而不見，見死不救，直到陳賢妹出現，毫不猶豫地伸出援手，令小悅悅尚有一線生機，為這場冷漠災難留下唯一一抹溫情。

阿婆家人嘆好人難做
救人反遭奚落，令陳賢妹和家人非常難過，她的兒媳感嘆：“難道做好人就這麼難？”
但陳賢妹並不後悔救起小悅悅，也不怕救人後被冤枉，並將民眾和政府頒給她的獎金，捐給被她救起的2歲女童王悅。
她說：“最重要是我對得住天地良心，由他們說吧！”
部份獎金轉贈小悅悅
這名依靠撿垃圾維生的婦女，原本是被視為社會最低下的階層，在事件曝光後，國內外上百家媒體紛紛趕來訪問，並受到廣東佛山各級政府慰問。
佛山市文明辦為褒揚她的見義勇為，週一為她送上2萬元獎金（人民幣，下同，約9千770令吉），但這名目不識丁、每月僅掙數百元人民幣的婦女多次推辭：“我不要了，別人會說我貪心才做好人……我只想著救人，希望她好起來。”
後來，在政府人員再三勸說下，她只好接受，並準備把部份獎金轉贈給小悅悅，希望盡一分力幫孩子。
此前，陳賢妹已把好心人捐給她的5千元轉贈女童一家，並說不足掛齒，“救人值千金，算是一點心意”。
媒體追訪
兒女生活受影響
58歲的陳賢妹有一子一女，為照顧到五金店打工的兒子和一對孫兒，2個月前由清遠跑到佛山，為減兒子負擔，每日到附近人家打散工做飯，撿紙皮幫補家計。
她憶述，事發當天下大雨，忽見女童躺在路旁呻吟，正奇怪人人視而不見，遂跑過去抱起滿臉披血的小孩，“（小悅悅）全身很軟，像沒骨頭，一隻眼合上、一隻眼打開，沒有哭聲，只有唉唉聲”，“我怕再有車來，抱著她跑到附近店舖追問是誰的孩子，誰知店內的人都說我為甚麼多管閒事”。
沒多久，女童母親便趕來把她送院。
不知有閉路電視
陳賢妹說：“我根本不知有閉路電視，只是趕著救人”。
但媒體連日追訪，令他們一家漸吃不消，“我兒子和女兒都因為我的行為惹麻煩了，生活受到了影響，房東也說媒體對我們的採訪影響到他們了。”
她用憋腳的語氣一次又一次重復：“這只是件小事情，我當時只想幫一下，沒有想太多，沒甚麼好講的。”
仍未能自行呼吸
小悅悅四肢有輕微知覺
遭2車輾過卻被18名路人漠視的小悅悅，未能自行呼吸，但四肢已開始有輕微知覺。
小悅悅的情況備受全國關注，她的父母開設微博，發佈小悅悅的最新情況及各感謝各界關心，網友也紛紛在微博下留言，點亮愛心和燭光表情，對小悅悅表示祈禱與關心。
母內疚情緒崩潰
根據週一晚6時左右的微博，小悅悅雖然仍未能自行呼吸，但四肢已經有輕微知覺，醫生稱進展比想像中好很多。
2歲的小悅悅目前仍躺在廣州軍區總醫院深切治療病房，被剃光頭，小小頭蓋骨暫被移除，由紗布包裹，插滿喉管。
院方指，小悅悅手腳雖有輕微反應，心跳、血壓平穩，但腦幹衰竭，無法恢復自主呼吸，死亡率高達99%，即使幸運生還，也將成為植物人；而針對小悅悅腦幹是否死亡的檢查結果會在週二出爐。
悅悅出事後，王母一直蹲在病房門外，情緒多次崩潰，為未好好看顧女兒內疚。
“希望孩子給我愛她的一次機會，媽媽沒看好你，都是媽媽的錯……你不能放棄媽媽，媽媽不會放棄你。”“我寧願放棄所有，只想一切沒有發生”。
而悅悅7歲的哥哥一直在家哭鬧，嚷著妹妹不見了，家人只好哄他“妹妹跑了去玩”。

作者: lilitan008 時間: 2011-10-19 09:31 PM

在中国内地的骗子形形色色的太多了，所以中国人对任何街边的事都相当警惕和防備的。。。特别在广州，有小孩被弄残废以做乞丐赚钱的故事，相信很多人都听过。。中国的社会太现实了

作者: lilitan008 時間: 2011-10-19 09:36 PM

quota “ I have been to Foshan Huangqi and cities in Guangdong. I witnessed snatch thieves who pulled the ear ring from a lady at Guangzhou railway station & the lady just chased after the thief while her ear was bleeding! This is the result of communism which prohibit religious beliefs in China. In fact, the hardcore poor are mainly workers from other provinces who were oppressed as cheap labour. They have no moral or insensitive to things happening around them as they have barely enough for themselves! Hope the death of this young child can create awareness to the leaders to focus on building essential moral values while developing economic growth! May she rest in peace in heaven! "

作者: kimmi8k 時間: 2011-10-20 07:17 AM

本帖最後由 kimmi8k 於 2011-10-19 05:27 PM 編輯

Dear norman

It is absolutely a tragic incident and an accident caused by negligence and irresponsibility on the part of parents n drivers, and part public ignorance and selfishness.

Every second, minute, hour and daily there are countless unreported cold blooded cases, and incidents that occured and passed us
by. Only, these particularly one received extra attention n media from the public.

The root of the accident is from the parents negligence n irresponsiblities, to leaved a very young child wondering on a busy street, creating the cause and effect of the tragedy in the first place. Then the drivers and public, came into the scene with individual causal acts to the accident.

Creating danger, harm and hurt in general.

It is time to reflect and re-evaluate our basic values, worth and responsibility and obligation in life. Beginning from our home and family and school education towards our community and social circle. Rather, prevent and plant good values and truth then worked on the mistakes and fault.

Norman, please go to my facebook link too.

Thank U for your thoughtfulness and heart.

作者: bchew 時間: 2011-10-20 07:19 AM

This is sad! I want to know that 7 min span her mother didn't realize she was gone???

作者: kimmi8k 時間: 2011-10-20 07:23 AM

本帖最後由 kimmi8k 於 2011-10-19 05:31 PM 編輯

This is sad! I want to know that 7 min span her mother didn't realize she was gone???
bchew 發表於 2011-10-19 05:19 PM

Yea wor...so disbelief...n in the media she was crying n blaming everyone but herself...soo verriii sad and hurt for the little child...

...it questioned me to doubt the love, attention n care that the little child has had from her short, vulnerable life...

作者: kimmi8k 時間: 2011-10-20 07:24 AM

..how hve u been my dear pal bchew

作者: bchew 時間: 2011-10-20 07:30 AM

pretty good here kimmi dear

作者: bchew 時間: 2011-10-20 07:31 AM

i heard the police caught both drivers

作者: kimmi8k 時間: 2011-10-20 07:32 AM

wat u doing bchew? hve u had u dinner, i am so hungry wor..

作者: kimmi8k 時間: 2011-10-20 07:40 AM

本帖最後由 kimmi8k 於 2011-10-19 05:44 PM 編輯

the drivers drove dangerously causing harm to the little child, so did the parents as well not guarding the child safely and it is against the law to leave even young children alone at home not to speak of wondering on a busy dangerous street

leaving young children at home, without guardian is enough for parents to loose the rights to a child's custody...

sooo hungri leh...i goin 2 grab sth to eat..talk 2 u later dear

作者: lhy92725 時間: 2011-10-20 09:45 AM

容我甘讲,呢D事情每日在中国发生着
可能你们在海外睇到觉得不可思议
但只要你在中国内地生活了相当一段时间之后
你会发现呢样事情同每日要食饭一样甘平常

作者: go2david 時間: 2011-10-20 11:22 AM

非常同意..記得多年前一個有錢人響農村開車撞死左個女孩, 這人渣竟然控告女孩家庭話個女孩整花佢部車...

作者: lhy92725 時間: 2011-10-20 11:46 AM

吾使多年前,基本上前几个月先有人做佐好心反而被判罚几十万

作者: go2david 時間: 2011-10-20 11:52 AM

人性本不瘋狂, 環境卻令人瘋狂, 悲哉..

作者: SweetLemon 時間: 2011-10-20 01:04 PM

昨晚台北（？）有醉漢睡倒街頭，好幾輛車都沒停繞著駕駛過去。是你你要停嗎？搞不好是假喝醉真搶劫呢。。。

作者: cck_my 時間: 2011-10-20 02:01 PM

关于今次事件，正如大家所讲全世界每一个角落都可能发生，只不过没有摄影及放大！

如果要怪/问责，首先一定不是那18个路人，因为事情的发生为意外，意外的造成是两岁的受害者走出马路，马路如虎口，如果受害者是22岁的话，你还会怪那司机吗？

1. 两岁孩子是无知的，照顾孩子完全是父母的责任

再来司机要负上疏忽责任，讲电话赶时间，知道撞到人还踩油逃跑，但这司机算还有人性，会主动联络孩子父母，在好多撞后逃的事件中，有几多个还理得你生或死？

2. 惹事司机应付上撞后逃的全部责任

第2个司机，他明明看到（就当他看不清楚是人，就算是一块石头）他是看到才闪高灯的，旁边有足够空位闪避却直驶而过，真是怕那小孩死不去！

3. 第2个司机也应付上一定的责任

最后来到社会问题，不是路人甲乙丙丁，是18个，有者路人、骑电单车、驾三轮电单车、带小孩的母亲，为什么他们视而不见？真是冷血到连人命也不顾？现今世界可以理解的是，大家都秉持着多一事不如少一事，事不关己，己不用心！问问你自己的良心，不是吗？不是不想去帮，而是怕惹祸上身！

4. 社会的变迁造就人们的冷漠无情

据闻在庞大的压力下，肇事司机已自首，警方也寻获第2司机，事件应该告一段落，两岁的死者还是让她RIP

作者: lhy92725 時間: 2011-10-20 03:11 PM

当冷漠变成了自我保护的必备工具
任何道德规范都已经不再适合

作者: go2david 時間: 2011-10-20 03:21 PM

你是冷血途人嗎？ - 曾志豪

佛山人這幾天都不敢抬頭，兩歲佛山女童悅悅被車撞倒，司機未施援手，反而冷血地輾過女童身體逃走，附近的十八名途人，竟全部視而不見。
全國怒喊「冷血十八人」，但其中一位冷血途人「自首」時辯稱，附近有更多沒有被監控鏡頭拍攝的途人，他們也坐視不理，可見冷血並非少數，而是多數；冷血並非變態，而是常態。
血是如何變冷的？
手觸摸到火，自然反應便是縮，今天大國救人如救火，隨時引火上身。
扶老人被屈，國人「敬老」變成「敬而遠之」；公路屈錢黨，也令司機見人如見鬼。
或許你不認為自己會如此功利，那如果路人問你借廿蚊，你會答應嗎？路人問你借電話，你肯借嗎？不，經驗告訴你，那些都是騙子，不要上當。那麼，萬一那個可憐的小伙子，他是真的流落街頭？萬一他真的遺失錢包？你不會考慮，那一刻你想的只是「不要受騙」。
人性就是如此，受環境影響，當救人沒有成本，人人都是大愛世人︰但只要有機會損害自已利益，人性便作出醜惡的選擇。
司機選擇輾過悅悅，因為死亡的賠償，比受傷的要低；但為何金錢成為判斷事情的唯一價值？看看大國遍地假貨黑心食物，看看政府草草掩埋高鐵意外的屍體，你便知道人命從來不是大國的最高價值。
「節省賠償」和「救人一命」，飽經訓練的國人做出了選擇。
再想深一層，為何出現許多屈錢賠醫藥費的案件？是否醫院那高昂的醫藥費所害？是大國的現實強迫國人「弱肉強食」，我不屈你醫藥費，我便要自己賠付，而我根本賠不起，我屈你，總好俾醫院屈我……
唯一仗義救人的拾荒婦，居然被圍攻「是否博出位」，她做的正是共產黨昔日提倡的「毫不利己，專門利人」的崇高行為；太崇高，在太低的國家，不就顯得太假？

作者: amannn 時間: 2011-10-20 06:09 PM

这真让人震惊！

他们长人心了吗？
我看过这样的照片，一只小猫被车撞到，其他的猫咪们则守护着它……
这样的人连小动物都不如。。。(>_<)

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作者: norman.ho 時間: 2011-10-20 07:47 PM

Thank you all for the great responses; I would really appreciate the insight from those who are currently living in China, or those who have a good understanding of the present day Chinese social psyche.

作者: kimmi8k 時間: 2011-10-21 12:15 AM

本帖最後由 kimmi8k 於 2011-10-20 11:36 AM 編輯

容我甘讲,呢D事情每日在中国发生着
可能你们在海外睇到觉得不可思议
但只要你在中国内地生活了相当一段时间之后
你会发现呢样事情同每日要食饭一样甘平常 ...
lhy92725 發表於 2011-10-19 07:45 PM

The bigger the country, the greater the social, economy, n polital issues. Ranging from political funds, social funds, welfare, medicals n school aids, child care, old aged etc..etc.,which interlinked with business n economics sadly to mention.

There is no dead end lines to draw. New issues toppled each day before old ones are resolved, adding to more complexity n
difficulty to come over with a resolution n solution. On top of that, society is craved in with bribes, malfunction, deceits, within
the high flyers. all powerful n rich.

Everything multiplied n magnified in accordance to your wealth n power ..poverty n possesions.  The ratio is math...no pain no gain, something comes something goes..selfless is a fairy tale, generosity n compassion is vaguely recognised, ...conscience has becomed a stranger in the dark.

Social attitudes and habits usually takes on the easiest path and adapts to the comfortable choice for the present moment, and calculate the odds as it comes. Who cares what happened to our neighbor!!!!

Gone are the days where u don't have to lock your cars or your front doors at home. I remember vaguely, when I was a little child, grandma took me with her to see some of her relatives in some village in Malaysia. Where u can hardly see a car. Now when I reminincenced, how privileged it is then it was that every family have their front doors open n not locked. The housewives n children can be seen around sitting in front of the house or playing n greeting each other, catch up w a little gossip, sharing n helping each other on trival matters.

Much appreciation to throw us much light on the conditions of China. Do keep us updated with interesting stuffs, n thank you for your kind n generous information.

作者: busyfun 時間: 2011-10-21 12:22 AM

I do wish this tragedy will arouse the society leaders to really find out what is wrong in most citizens now under their sovereignty. Why their mentality is corrupted to such extent and what environment and education they are now living in that make them so inhuman and immoral? Not to mention that no immediate helping hands were given by those passed by, I wonder any one of them did think it is our moral duty as citizens to seek help from police and cry out for helps from all sources available.

Though I am not living in Mainland China, I do think it is indeed a great lesson for all Chinese to learn and to reflect on ourselves. It is very sad to say our Mainland China is still an under-developed country with many many aspects for improvement............

Having said that, I do wish all Chinese, the great majority of which are normal and kind in nature, will render their helping hands to improve our country and take all positive means to nurture our youngsters of future. Hopefully through improvement in education, the Government of China will make great changes in coming years.

GOD bless yue yue and our mother land.

作者: kimmi8k 時間: 2011-10-21 12:46 AM

本帖最後由 kimmi8k 於 2011-10-20 09:36 PM 編輯

[quote]关于今次事件，正如大家所讲全世界每一个角落都可能发生，只不过没有摄影及放大！

如果要怪/问责，首先一定不是那18个路人，因为事情的发生为意外，意外的造成是两岁的受害者走出马路，马路如虎口，如果受害者是22 ...
cck_my 發表於 2011-10-20 12:01 AM

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Maybe the law should play tough on learner's license and driver's and offenders who break the traffic laws.

Quota License each year n tough passing grades w tough officers
Expensive point deductions,  Fine plus  community work hours for light offenders without court appeal

Perhaps alot of the drivers, have obtained a bribed license without passing the driving exam...looking
at the ignorant driving traffic manners n attitude eh!!!

Clearly, IPhone n Blackberry n Androids are more for personal entertaining and fun rather then emergency call or important purposes.  No wonder, so many is willing to pay expensive hi tech phones, the crazy chase for the latest hit model on the market.
Thanks to the ad people and marketing personnel's for hard selling, and up selling the public image of its purpose. It's publicity have certainly justified its cause perhaps.

The trend of the 'air' is other person's problem not my worry or care..." Si Butt Kuan Kei, Kei Butt Low Sum" (Cantonese), that's the Asian social attitude.  N it is quite traditional custom n culture of the east, especially Chinese to draw oneself away from a crime or trouble scene so as not to get oneself in questioning with the law authorities or police. Always, try not to be involved with any matters of affairs that seem questioning trouble and touchy.

It is easy for society to forget one's religion, and roots but habit and custom is deeply rooted in the tradition n culture in each family n household coz they grew up watching, learning n believing it and since then has adapted, adopted and became a part of living existence like a parasite leaching to a living being for the means of survival n existence with the name This Is Life wor..so life is like this wor...so what ah Life is not fair ah...so then Fair is only within oneself la...only tried to stay away from trouble..anything wrong ke??!!!

....so social moral has retrogressed....fallen into the deepest hollow where its value n worth has little meaning, like the coldest night air and the darkest  pathway

作者: bchew 時間: 2011-10-21 11:33 AM

She has gone to be with God. She will never shed another tear, will never feel pain again. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to all who loved this child.

作者: kimmi8k 時間: 2011-10-21 11:58 AM

本帖最後由 kimmi8k 於 2011-10-20 10:01 PM 編輯

She has gone to be with God. She will never shed another tear, will never feel pain again. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to all who loved this child.
bchew 發表於 2011-10-20 09:33 PM

Well, there is the theory that explained why incidents or accidents or events happened and how did the conditions occured and what that created the occurance.

In Buddhism, everything is there for a reason n a purpose. For all that happened and existed there's a cause and effect, created from present, past and future karma.

So in other words, the little child, the parents, drivers, passer by, spectators, whether they look on, or helped or ignored, endangered. killed...etc., all participated some kind of causal acts and shared some similar karma and effect is with timing.

When the time is ripened its cause and effect of the karmas would take is caused to reflect the karma created..goodness or evil,

debts or repayments, kindness or hatred etc etc....

When a karma is created, the cause n effect will ripened with its own time ...creating the conditions, and grounds for it to materialise

and events to happen.

作者: qqonqq 時間: 2011-10-21 04:09 PM

Well I saw an article which reported that when judging a case of hit and run, the Nanjing judge asked the defendent why he helped the wounded since he was not the one that brought the wounded down. Such a statement probably sumed up the general practice of carring only your home front.

作者: bchew 時間: 2011-10-22 09:18 AM

I hope that this little angel who was discarded by society can act as a wake-up call to the nation about the importance of moral education

作者: bchew 時間: 2011-10-22 09:21 AM

Hope you can find some love in heaven

作者: mrfusion 時間: 2011-10-22 05:01 PM

the drivers drove dangerously causing harm to the little child, so did the parents as well not guarding the child safely and it is against the law to leave even young children alone at home not to spe ...
kimmi8k 發表於 2011-10-20 07:40 AM

Are you sure there are law against leaving children home alone in China?

作者: mrfusion 時間: 2011-10-22 05:14 PM

本帖最後由 mrfusion 於 2011-10-22 05:16 PM 編輯

To be honest when I read this news I feel a shame to be a Chinese...but the reason why the people in PRC become so 'cold blood' is just because there are so many bastards in China doing cheating business every day...not so long time ago we just heard the news that a 'hot blood' guy was helping an old man who got injured on the road and brought him home was finally being cheated by that old man for a big money. Even the case was finally put on court that good guy still have to pay...so what's wrong on our country!!
go2david 發表於 2011-10-19 06:52 PM

I couldn't have agree more, all these cheats has taught Chinese one lesson,

多做多錯，少做少錯，吾做就無錯。多一事不如少一事，少一事不如無事。

Chinese people's heart is not cold, Chinese are so protective to themselves the heart is blocked。

How do you know if the girl on the street genuinely need help, who can guarantee as soon as you stop and check on her, that there isn't a dozen men jump out and accuse you for hurting the girl and demand money from you。

This is a real life Chinese version of 狼來了。

作者: lilitan008 時間: 2011-10-22 09:35 PM

小悅悅 RIP

E+ 的心情。。。。

交织千个心
[youtube]N74Nn1p9yP4[/youtube]

冷是這世間冰冷　沒有一絲關注
就讓日子飄去
看受那痛苦迫壓　常被饑荒掩蓋
好景彷彿不再
放開心中思慮　共創美好不必恐懼
願永遠

戰在這世間充滿　戰火摧毀一切
末日就似拉近
創為了明天開創　忘掉幾許掙鬥
實現夢境所有
放開心中思慮　共創美好不必恐懼
願永遠

唱為這世間歌唱　獻出一點關注
盡量令它溫暖
唱共你挽手歌唱　獻出一點真志
盡量令它可愛
放開心中思慮　共創美好不必恐懼
願永遠

交織千個心　用愛驅走冰凍
歌聲空氣中　為世間多添個美夢

放開心中思慮　共創美好不必恐懼
願永遠

作者: cordho 時間: 2011-10-22 09:58 PM

I heard a real story, years and years ago when a woman went to Guong Dong the arm of her sunglasses fell off. Several people there helped look for the tiny screw and fixed her glasses.

Where is that spirit now? I hope it would return some day.

作者: cordho 時間: 2011-10-22 10:08 PM

Parents can't lock up their children or watch them every minute, but they should make them aware cars can be dangerous, truck drivers can't see little kids.

Every now and then we hear news that parents run over their child while backing out of their driveway.

Then again, there is no excuse that truck driver not only did not stop to help, but run over her again with the back wheel...absolute horror and makes my blood boils..

作者: felicity2010 時間: 2011-10-23 01:12 AM

本帖最後由 felicity2010 於 2011-10-23 01:37 AM 編輯

I believe this incident is only a manifestation of a deeply embedded social ill. Since the establishment of the PRC government, the series of political movements had basically destroyed the yardstick for truth and righteousness. It is easy to blame the people but all they do is self-preservation. They know clearly justices would not be served. It is not the lack of written laws but the will to carry them out in China. The judicial system is still like a black box and often serves the political inclination of the government and the powerful ones. The people would remain detached until the injustices fall on them. Recent examples like 趙連海, 陳光誠 who stood for justices and what a hefty price they paid. The absurdity in handling the 高鐵 accident defied all logic under the very eye of high officials. The angry outbursts and condemnation were 'harmonized' quickly. Everything has a price-tag in China now, wealth is the only parameter to measure success and also the safest one. The sons and daughters of the past and present leaders among the wealthy is a telltale sign of the ill emanating from the very top. Therefore, I don't blame the common people, they only do it for self-preservation. Frankly, I see no remedy out of this and you can call me a pessimist.

作者: norman.ho 時間: 2011-10-23 09:59 AM

本帖最後由 norman.ho 於 2011-10-23 10:03 AM 編輯

Aren't we over politicizing this human tragedy too much? This little girl was killed. Killed in a most callous way. She was robbed of her happy time when all the other kids are getting the red pockets at the next Chinese New Year, she wouldn't get to try on another pair of new shoes or pretty dress, she would not be attending her school sports carnival, she would miss out learning how to put on cosmetics, on falling in love for the first time, her 18th birthday, being independent, getting married, have children ......
And you would let this happen again?! What about when the next victim is some one you know? She could even be your sister, your niece, your daughter, or just the young girl or young boy living next door.

作者: k23bb 時間: 2011-10-23 11:11 PM

真係醜事傳千里...
不過果10幾個人真係非常冇人性
幫手打個電話都好丫

作者: norman.ho 時間: 2011-10-24 07:03 PM

41# k23bb

幫手打個電話都好丫

Well said.
Yes, as simple as that.
I hold no political agenda,
and I'm not being self-righteous,
but I can't bear watching that clip anymore,
tears fill my eyes,
and I don't easily get emotional;
wish I could write a song,
somebody to write a song,
for such sad sad tragedy,
to remind us,
we can all lend a helping hand
to our fellow human being,
a simple act of kindness
could save someone's life;
that someone,
could easily be
someone close to you.

作者: kimmi8k 時間: 2011-10-24 10:31 PM

Are you sure there are law against leaving children home alone in China?
mrfusion 發表於 2011-10-22 03:01 AM

my apology..i live in the US..i shd have clarify myself
NY law forbid parents to leave young children and teenagers at home alone
it is against the law, especially kids under the age of 12yrs..
parents may loose custody for child endangerment

作者: kimmi8k 時間: 2011-10-24 10:47 PM

本帖最後由 kimmi8k 於 2011-10-24 09:27 AM 編輯

I couldn't have agree more, all these cheats has taught Chinese one lesson,

多做多錯，少做少錯，吾做就無錯。多一事不如少一事，少一事不如無事。

Chinese people's heart is not cold, Chinese are so p ...
mrfusion 發表於 2011-10-22 03:14 AM

Thk you very much to share. It is a very sad case...now I can see the matter in better light.

Long time ago, hikers often got a ride easily. But some nuts n nerds abused kindness with cars who stopped, and robbed them too. These days cars don't really stop for hitch hikers too, for the same reasons.

And there's also cases, where help was offered to strangers, and later found they hve withdraw their savings fr the ATM ...n their home were robbed.

And the more extreme cases, were a night out hanging in clubs with some strangers, ended the next morning in some motel bathroom tub covered with ice, and with an incision on the body, and organs removed. I heard selling organs in the black market is quite ruthless and cold blooded.

Deceiving and misleading superstitious claims of baby tonic soup sold in restaurants for selfish means n gains are extremely disturbing and discomforting.

It is true to a certain extend, that con mans and swindlers have made it fearful for the general public to offer a helping hand.

I definitely agreed with you, the coldness in China were to some extend affected and caused by people who have abused kindness with cheating n deceitful means.

I am sure, there are still many people who are kind and helpful.

作者: kimmi8k 時間: 2011-10-24 11:02 PM

I believe this incident is only a manifestation of a deeply embedded social ill. Since the establishment of the PRC government, the series of political movements had basically destroyed the yardstick ...
felicity2010 發表於 2011-10-22 11:12 AM

China has just opened its doors to the splendid freedom, to its nation not too long. It is amazing that China's economy is doing pretty well now.
Perhaps the country and nation needs more time and experience with these new found freedoms to mature and develop and steer on to its own purpose and needs.
China's dream, future, and hope is in the hands of the younger generation who will give new blood to its nation and country's fate.

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