[疑難求助] 你曾經是第三者嗎?

jennchl

請問有誰曾經第三者?  我愛上了一個已有女朋友的男人.
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; f( R  Q6 P7 p, L和他做了好朋友三年, 最近大家才對大家表白, 才知道大家已經一直喜歡對方但沒有表白.5.39.217.767 z- L2 Y4 c* h' t" J- B. K

* k( X$ h  G! v, M5.39.217.76我們深愛著對方, 可惜不知道應該怎麼辦, 他跟他的女朋友已經十三年了, 並且是同居, 我不是很樂觀, 有時候真的很想要他認真的選擇和決定, 可是我非常害怕聽到一個不想聽的答案, 所以遲遲都沒有問.5.39.217.76+ X' K7 y6 v$ C0 I* ]/ S

0 ^5 b9 b; g' H$ l5 `3 B1 ?/ |+ n8 w公仔箱論壇以前也會和他的女朋友大家成群的出去, 現在因為他的女朋友感覺到我和這男人的感覺, 所以她很討厭我, 並要這男人跟我斷絕來往.  現在我們只能用有限的時間通通電話和吃飯. 他很失落, 他說他很害怕失去我, 我亦很害怕失去他.
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0 @. k1 ]6 G2 }9 @+ k0 f請問大家, 我做錯了, 是否應該退出? 還是主動爭取?

jennchl

any suggestions?

guandesu

愛情沒有對錯,或許只有愛錯

十年一剑

给他限定一个时间，做出选择。

jennchl

I'm so scared of hearing the NO answer....

icceti

are you making a choice or are you letting him make the decision?5.39.217.76# S; w( i& G7 S" ~  n+ W# |7 f
if you truly do not want to leave him then fight.
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but you can't say after a few years of being with you, he won't fall in love with someone else.
# o( I5 ^0 H9 `+ \' mtvb now,tvbnow,bttvbif you are letting him decide, then give yourself a time limit so you won't be waiting for him for the rest of your life without an answer.tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb! l5 G9 w* E5 ]; t' ~6 A$ w# }
a no is better than none.  you'll suffer even more watching them get married, have kids and you are alone by yourself.公仔箱論壇$ ]& ]- f& L; [% c* N
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[ 本帖最後由 icceti 於 2009-4-11 01:01 AM 編輯 ]

tommyjai

i have hear someone told thattvb now,tvbnow,bttvb  j$ c! C4 \0 ?# i4 V  J, M  z
if u scare to get reject5 E* [! e7 u  M5 G! w
u should reject before it rejects u

xiehuoli

建议你退出吧

beckham07sky

Ask him to make a decision.
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YOU MUST THINK TO YOUR FURTURE. 2 m5 x$ p6 l9 z+ R( \
Please don't as stupid as me before.% x8 B& C, k7 L/ T$ V- c8 z
GOOD LUCK!!

dream1972

天下何处无“杂草”？何必和人争？十三年的感情，他今天能这样对他目前的女朋友，难保他十三年后“主角”换你当了，所以请三思。。。

xxx728

给他限定一个时间，做出选择。, G4 V+ B" D- J; H) E7 }9 f7 V; C
十年一剑 發表於 2009-4-10 08:18 PM

一針見血i agree with that
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kathy1234

其实我也和你一样~也是喜欢一个有女友了的男生~我每次听到他说他和女友出去~或陪女友而没找我~我听到会很失落~
8 c+ u8 L  |" w( X# s0 k' P. ktvb now,tvbnow,bttvb但是毕竟我不是他的谁~他既然有女友了~就应该祝福他~公仔箱論壇& K5 I2 J8 b! r! _) q% a& E( B& _
不应破坏他们的感情~13年的感情不是说完就完的~7 E) u" N" I, H: q9 X9 Y4 B( ^

; r# V8 ~* T4 B( i! D& [8 V5.39.217.76你好好想吧~如果真的喜欢他~不一定要和他一起~可以祝福他啊~$ R0 m& u6 C+ }1 L
或许我的想法与你不同~但这纯属我个人意见啦~, q# ]7 Y0 u9 u9 |4 I" d* \! s

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勇敢点！~~