i'm a man and let me tell you like a man. it's hard to get over the first love. i can personally attest to it. i've been happily married with children for years now. i'm not going to tell you how long. just long.
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: p4 ?* u5 H# L8 i0 Di love my wife, my kids and my family. but deep in my mind, i still remember the girl i fell in love for the first time. but i always remember one thing. there should be line drawn between reality and fantasy. tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb; N: U. ~% ?6 _ [" \9 T! x
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for me reality is very real and a fantasy is just a bubble. as long as you don't let your bubble inflates too large, it won't burst and you can always have it.
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if a married man let his fantasy get out f hand, it could turn into a disaster -- just like the Hindenburg. |