大家一齊研究下.. ， 描述： 究竟係個男既有問題定係個女既有呢?

ijk321

由於我唔想公開佢地既真名，唯有用 男人同女人 去做匿稱。
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: e5 {; |$ j2 t+ q6 w! W男人同女人兩個係一齊左差唔多四年幾五年既情侶，期間仲一齊拍檔做生意。tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb  j! c! f, W& x- ^) H  @
頭個一年，生活都過得去，唔算太差，所以兩個人唔會嗌交。# K6 `& l9 i! P( F+ w9 Z9 y$ v9 U) ?
第二年生意好似幾好，於是開左間分店，捻住發大黎搞，點知就咁就奶野。間野要執不但止，仲惹上官非。5.39.217.76+ I9 ^5 A/ B4 Q. A! M6 W2 f
佢地以為只要同心就一定可以捱得過lee個難關。tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb' O0 Z9 b1 H( T$ v

8 Q3 ?: Z+ ^. G1 G' c0 k男人同女人講，你屋企同朋友都冇可能幫到手架啦，不如等我搞掂d錢啦。搵錢咁辛苦，等我做啦，加上你既學歷又唔係高，做得d乜吖。
, d9 r7 |) c; E0 ?, K) vtvb now,tvbnow,bttvb於是搵錢既"重擔"就落左男人既身上。女人個心好感動，捻住搵到一個會照顧自己、對自己好既男人。
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點知男人對女人越黎越有怨言，開始投訴佢lee樣、投訴佢那樣。女人同佢講，之前發生既事，係佢咁大過都未經歷過既，佢有憂鬱症。5.39.217.76# |: H, X, G3 h9 J
連醫生都叫女人去睇心理醫生，不過女人連去既心情都冇。女人同男人講，覺得壓力好大好辛苦，但係男人同女人講，你又唔洗做壓咩力o者，我就真係有壓力啦。公仔箱論壇+ S8 A+ a3 P5 w0 n  ^" K8 U/ }

9 R5 N& G4 X; P' f# G/ b$ |自從個次發生事兼有憂鬱症之後，女人覺得好似對咩都冇興趣，唔想去煮飯，唔想去街，講野唔敢大大聲，好似自己做d乜sorry野壞事咁。
. X. f& V) J% K( Y公仔箱論壇當男人鬧女人既時侯，女人最叻就係唔出聲，唔想嘈。可能因為鬧極都冇乜反應，男人好似越鬧越有癮。其實唔係女人冇脾氣，只係女人唔想同男人嘈，所以唔出聲，自己谷住係個心度，只有等男人去左返工，佢先敢發洩出黎、喊出黎。同朋友講，朋友都唔信女人會轉左死性，咁容易俾人蝦(因為女人以前都係一個脾氣幾大既人)。所以女人都唔想再同人講自己既捻法。& [. W& q; b* i6 a% ~$ u6 l
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男人鬧既，女人都唔想理，佢捻依家男人日鬧夜鬧，都係因為冇錢，可能有錢之後，佢會唔同、唔再鬧。5.39.217.76- P: l) t5 X* K# x- h' ]5 `+ ^6 X
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但係日子慢慢咁過，男人都冇變好，反變本加厲鬧得仲勁。女人開始心淡、開始厭倦，於是佢同男人講佢想分手。; t5 y9 N, l6 f) |' Y
男人每次聽到都同女人講，你依家同我分手，你以後都仲會同其他人一齊架，你唔好咁小姐脾氣啦，不如等你改左d脾氣先啦，我為你好咋。+ p% H. W  T5 y. c* v3 s& T
岩岩講分手既時侯，女人都係理直氣壯既，但係一聽到男人講長篇大論既野，佢又覺得好似男人有道理。
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1 i& b. F3 v% g: ^( YTVBNOW 含有熱門話題，最新最快電視，軟體，遊戲，電影，動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。直到一次，男人同女人講，你咁既態度係咪想分手?? 你再係咁我地黎緊既幾十年好難相處架。女人即刻同男人講，係，我地分手啦!!TVBNOW 含有熱門話題，最新最快電視，軟體，遊戲，電影，動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。; z+ o& F- n9 C) T2 d! {
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男人幾日都冇太多反應，之後冇啦啦同女人講，你知我唔會箍煲、唔會去挽留人架。女人冇出聲，亦都唔希望男人挽留，只係想男人同佢分手，唔好再一齊。公仔箱論壇! k8 o; P: H2 f6 ^$ h5 x

# X; }" @8 K3 V; M( D4 ytvb now,tvbnow,bttvb分左手之後，基於女人冇經濟能力，所以暫時仲要同男人一齊住。5 e1 t, j( [% U! }# W, h8 @
住既時間，男人連最基本既尊重都冇，依然會搵野鬧女人。甚至有一次，直頭想同女人上床，女人say no，男人就同女人講，我地一齊咁多年啦，就連咁簡單既忙你都唔肯幫？？好！以後你有咩問題亦都唔洗指意我會幫你！！女人同男人講，朋友之間既幫忙唔係幫ｌｅｅ　ｄ。
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公子

女人不是男人的玩具，也不是男人的奴隸﹗5.39.217.76) z0 ~; v$ |: Q6 d% q

2 k$ W% w8 c- ]4 }( S& W. I! y& sTVBNOW 含有熱門話題，最新最快電視，軟體，遊戲，電影，動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。這種男人要不要也罷，女人不是一生出來就要無止境地給這種男人罵吧？這種不會尊重女人的男人要來干嘛？一起也算同甘共苦過，為何因為這樣便要一直默默待在這種環境裡？連生個病也沒心思去醫好…
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  o( a+ E- ^( L& r哀莫大於心死，心死了真的什麼都提不起勁去做，小弟也曾經過著這種日子，病也一直沒辦法醫好，可是如果身邊可以有個真心的朋友拉一把，就可以逃離這種困境了，難道那個女人連真心的朋友也沒一個？tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb- }/ P9 N7 z5 D' {3 d" i! s. A
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就算分手好歹也要用行動證明吧﹗回自己家人那裡，她們總該會保護她吧？快些逃離這種困境吧，不然受苦的只是那個女人罷了﹗

ijk321

不是說女人的朋友都不敢相信她發生了這種事嗎?　你說她該怎樣和別人說，熟悉的是這樣，不熟悉更不可能跟人家說吧。

坏蛋小子

分手了 没$$也不应该住在一起 要被当玩具/奴隸就继续住吧

kti5678

Whatever happened the man should not treat his woman like that! She is not his slave ma!

cutiepie

gal, u should go!!!no money survive then go back ur home...  s4 }3 Y+ [; \
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find your new life and leave him there...

pangck

呢D男人要黎做乜！比我見到呢D人，見一鑊打一鑊！

blueocean

Personally, I think the girl should not be together with the man anymore.公仔箱論壇6 I8 ]' q& D' g2 Q, b5 E: C" D
In a love relationship, women are not just toy. They are someone who will share your anger, joy, sadness, everything. They are your most-trusted ones.
1 U- U0 X+ [. ^% x5.39.217.76First of all, the business problem....the man shouldn't blame the woman. In fact, they should comfort each other...overcome this problem together
! I7 r5 A& _+ a) ztvb now,tvbnow,bttvbThat the meaning of love, face problem together
4 E" @3 [- x+ y1 x: GTVBNOW 含有熱門話題，最新最快電視，軟體，遊戲，電影，動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。The man, he shouldn't never take out his anger on his girl. If he's feeling upset, do some execise and calm himself down
" R4 B2 o) O9 d7 \公仔箱論壇Taking out his anger on his girl won't solve any problem. In fact, it will just create more problem in his relationship.5.39.217.76# ~$ h3 F) E6 z1 e! J) t
After they break up, the girl should leave the man immediately. I mean the man is no longer give any respect to the girl. What's the point of staying with him.
$ a( b7 ~& @7 e- F3 ~/ `. M5.39.217.76I know that looking for a job may be hard, but this is life. There are always ups and downs. I am sure she will overcome it. Or maybe ask friends to introduce jobs to her.
. U; A2 L& d8 }tvb now,tvbnow,bttvbThen, the man asking for sex in return...that's just insane. tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb; t2 s/ S1 C( s, i' n: I, a0 }
In conclusion, the girl should leave the man and find someone else. Or get a job first and continue her life.

何非凡

個男人就係食住女人走唔出佢既摩掌就對佢亳無尊重,簡直係變態.個女人一定要堅強,離開佢.可能經濟情況,精神問題令佢覺得走左唔知點算,但係既然留係佢身邊咁難頂佢都挨得住...出去闖下又有咩好怕呢!

jo7878

first of all. i think girl n man together will always have problem, no matter who n where.! {' [1 B" m' i, q9 ~) U
there is no way only because of the man.as ijk321  said ,因為女人以前都係一個脾氣幾大既人.2 x1 V; m4 [. ~% V
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2,男人同女人兩個係一齊左差唔多四年幾五年既情侶，期間仲一齊拍檔做生意.頭個一年，生活都過得去，唔算太差，所以兩個人唔會嗌交。第二年生意好似幾好.she should know him  enough to leave him.cause no one can hide their  脾氣 for 4 to 5 years.
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3,點知男人對女人越黎越有怨言，開始投訴佢lee樣、投訴佢那樣.女人又唔洗做壓咩力o者，我就真係有壓力啦.女人又唔想去煮飯，唔想去街，講野唔敢大大聲，好似自己做d乜sorry野壞事咁。as a woman ,u need to know how to make a living.never count on a man.even if u r very pretty.u will get old.never be a rock of someone.(even parents)do your daily stuff at lease.so he can't complain.i bet she never workout or makeup.for sure no clean up the house......like i m .that why i hire a maid n work two job.if u benefit other .they will only need u. not hate u. 公仔箱論壇' X. e. J2 j9 F& t2 X! a" {% v
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4,但係日子慢慢咁過，男人都冇變好，反變本加厲鬧得仲勁。女人開始心淡、開始厭倦，於是佢同男人講佢想分手。she think she is always right(cause she thinking she is sick) (good reason).she know she is ready to leave the man .n she never plan for her life.she should know better if she want to leave .she will need a job or back up plan. i bet her family is not around her.(from other country) n her friend dont like her much. if not even not a close friend will help her.5.39.217.76' K8 ?7 w+ B& @4 U3 l9 u: a

5 m0 U  r: h3 Xlast,分左手之後，基於女人冇經濟能力，所以暫時仲要同男人一齊住。
* ~! R  ?) e9 [# P男人連最基本既尊重都冇，依然會搵野鬧女人。甚至有一次，直頭想同女人上床，女人say no，男人就同女人講，我地一齊咁多年啦，就連咁簡單既忙你都唔肯幫？？好！以後你有咩問題亦都唔洗指意我會幫你！！女人同男人講，朋友之間既幫忙唔係幫ｌｅｅ　ｄ。
- B) w# Y* J1 y! P9 a9 @公仔箱論壇女人係男人既玩具嗎？係男人既奴隸嗎？if she left.nothing will happen.why stay.without paying rent n food. they r not together anymore. wrong move.she is worse than chick.she may think everyone own her.9 l/ }2 L5 ^5 C  A

1 w' H* P$ K5 c, O# N! Ai didn't mean to said all that. but to letl her know, that her life .manage it. counting on other to help or 同情.is useless .be strong.cause u r a girl.TVBNOW 含有熱門話題，最新最快電視，軟體，遊戲，電影，動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。- Z  @% }! v- Z
guy is always bad in someway when they have a change or when time come n they can take advantage .he wasnt that bad. i seen worse.
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1 I9 p4 \! l9 |$ V! v5.39.217.76man...女人自從個次發生事兼有憂鬱症之後，女人覺得好似對咩都冇興趣 , 點知男人對女人越黎越有怨言，開始投訴佢lee樣、投訴佢那樣.
! F& t; @+ O/ s, S* S1 b/ @: l. Z6 `公仔箱論壇女人同男人講佢想分手。男人(每次)(how many time she said that)聽到都同女人講你依家同我分手，你以後都仲會同其他人一齊架，你唔好咁小姐脾氣啦，(因為女人以前都係一個脾氣幾大既人)不如等你改左d脾氣先啦，我為你好咋。直到一次，男人同女人講，你咁既態度係咪想分手?? 你再係咁我地黎緊既幾十年好難相處架。女人即刻同男人講，係，我地分手啦!! i think he mean it .he want to be with her for life.
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分左手之後，基於女人冇經濟能力，所以暫時仲要同男人一齊住。男人連最基本既尊重都冇，依然會搵野鬧女人。甚至有一次，直頭想同女人上床，女人say no， (did they still sleep together in the same bed or same room.) i think the man still think they were together.if they sleep in the same bed.
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男人就同女人講，我地一齊咁多年啦，就連咁簡單既忙你都唔肯幫？？好！以後你有咩問題亦都唔洗指意我會幫你！！......(女人同男人講，朋友之間既幫忙唔係幫ｌｅｅ　ｄ。)  man only need sex from woman.that what they call love. meaning they still love u. if they dont love u. they won't f with u. that how i c it. (boy)friend r ok. (boyfriend) or (husband) better watch out n think deeply girl.be smart.do your own thing first.than u will take the lead.oktvb now,tvbnow,bttvb9 r) v1 P+ {7 Z5 p' W7 m
TVBNOW 含有熱門話題，最新最快電視，軟體，遊戲，電影，動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。. |% c8 }, }, I+ K
[ 本帖最後由 jo7878 於 2008-9-3 07:25 PM 編輯 ]

方块树熊

人的情绪是很复杂的，
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男人是在“责任”，“没其他办法”的情况下把赚钱的责任扛上的。。公仔箱論壇3 d: v0 ?' q0 H& a4 r* b% f
因为那情况下赚钱最重要，所以男人身体上，还有心灵上都会有很大的压力。。
/ q: V! }1 a/ ?9 i5.39.217.76任谁对着一而再，再而三都解决不到的事都会感到心烦。
. W* j- U/ G4 e6 M* W5.39.217.76这时男人会找宣泄管道，开始责备，嫌这嫌那。。毕竟女人帮不到他。。. d, p2 o( D* t$ a& Y+ V7 Q' X# @
而女人也知道男人辛苦，所以脾气也收敛，也没去理会。。tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb* |( l$ v4 U* H+ n8 J: C  n: e$ a7 r" R
女人知道帮不到他，当然也有压力，心灵上的压力。。公仔箱論壇7 r; O6 ^* D3 L# H6 k! \- |9 b; z4 H
我看男人也不想这样，女人也是。不过都不理解不谅解对方，
$ a2 s0 n- L9 ~# n4 A( i  X2 e+ }0 Y% l公仔箱論壇就这样一直累积，一直恶性循环，自然会分手。。2 A4 W8 ?! J1 N  D
接下来的只是顺着恶性循环下去，5.39.217.76& ]* Y, h6 d) e8 K, K6 c0 l. ~
也不是谁坏谁好的问题了。。
7 n" H4 G$ x, I; N都不想，但是都继续。。
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4 ?3 i, }: p2 Z7 U% etvb now,tvbnow,bttvb的确只要同心就一定可以捱得過，公仔箱論壇% h; l8 h- E4 a8 d# O0 d$ A& Z6 {- S
只是他们的“同心”很不同心，
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就好比肚子饿了，胃负责消化，但还需嘴巴把食物咀嚼。。
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赚少无所谓，补不到钱包也能补男人和自己的心灵。。同心
$ X7 G; X$ M% L4 n7 w9 |男人也是，虽然忙可是也要对女人用心~
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