女朋友和别的男人上床了，我该怎么办？

我对女朋友那样好！但她为什么被着我和别的男人上床，完后还理直气壮的！！！我问她爱他吗，她说不爱，问她是不是不爱我了，她说还爱我！又问是我满足不了她，她说我比其他男的强多了，还向我保证以后不会了，我该怎么办啊！我爱她，4年了，一直如此爱她！！！我心里好苦啊！4年了，双方家长都同意我们的事，我都张罗想结婚了，但是～～～～～～～～～～! l' ^2 V) _. p
她在认识我前已经和几个男人有过关系，但是我不在乎那个，只想着以后好就行了- ^; V/ w* h6 D0 M: C# v
而且我们已经同居3年多了，我真不知道该怎么做了！！！
她是我的第一个女人，4年多我从没有对不起过她tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb* o' c, R& u6 K, S" x
想分手，但我实在不想放下4年的感情，我在在乎她以前的事，但是和我在一起了，还和别的男人上床，说不在乎是骗人的！我的心里好苦啊

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all1437

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發表於 2008-4-26 01:57 PM | 只看該作者

I would suggest you to give up the relationship. I had a similar situation. I was living with my bf for 2 years now, and end up breaking up. He had cheated on me last year, and he begged me for a chance. Lately, I found out that he and the third person never broke up. He had been lying to me and the third person for 9 months, and he ends up telling me he wants to be with the third person. I tell you this just want you to understand you are like gambling if you choose to take her back. People always say "Once a cheater, always a cheater". I don't believe it when it happened to me, but I experienced and it is true. So, it's up to you if you want to give her a try or end the relationship so that you don't have to suffer anymore. Also, I truely believe that if she loves you enough, she will never cheated on you. That means she doubts the love between you two and choose to cheat which you might need to consider if she worths you to take her back......

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發表於 2008-4-26 07:03 PM | 只看該作者

这种女人不要了~~~她口说爱你，心可不是这样的。飞了她。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。飞了她。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。飞了她。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。飞了她。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。