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0 }' y/ \( \/ s$ [$ @" Z“Ten taboos to happiness” for the intelligent aged persons
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一、不要再替成年子女操心,才不會碎碎唸。 公仔箱論壇( Z8 B) r2 v! S/ f$ E
Don’t be concerned about adult children any more, otherwise, cannot stop the annoying chatters.
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二、不要再將成年子女當成未成年來「監護」,以免顧人怨。 5 o/ ~+ h+ c& t& N- [7 f) \3 k
Don’t regard the adult children as of under age and serve as a guardian for them, so to avoid incurring complaints. 公仔箱論壇9 x: W' l4 l& q4 X! Z
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三、不必事事都「非知道不可」,尊重已成年子女的隱私權、自主權。
) W, p' w, q( h' `4 J" _! n. @! j# a公仔箱論壇No necessary to know everything, pay respect to the privacy and the right of decision-making of adult children.
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四、不要再以兒、孫為生活重心,尋找自己的園地,才不致天天望穿秋水。
. _0 \8 T! t3 V& ]+ C5 \公仔箱論壇Don’t regard children and grandchildren as a center of life, look for personal social circles, so to avoid trapping yourself in the dilemma of anxious expectation and disappointment daily.
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+ E3 x8 ]' L$ P7 i1 t8 X' i( Q五、不要逢人就訴苦,寧可寫作、畫畫、練功、唱歌,以藝術、創作昇華情緒。 ( t- ?* ?- V. m. k0 Y
Raise a habit of writing, painting, exercising, singing to sublime your mood by arts and creation rather than complain to people coming across.
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! J6 L/ I1 U( ^. Z, Z8 ^tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb六、不要凡事抱怨,多欣賞、感謝別人為取悅你所做的努力。 TVBNOW 含有熱門話題,最新最快電視,軟體,遊戲,電影,動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。8 E( M8 M _5 }
More admiration, less complaints and appreciate what other people have done for pleasing you. 公仔箱論壇; Z% }0 w- }5 }# c
; E: b+ U" a; W% T5.39.217.76七、不要因孫輩和子女媳婿爭執衝突,這樣只會惡性循環,害了你的孫輩。 `7 S5 n r: P# w" T/ U
Don’t involve in the dispute between grandchildren and adult children, this act just causes adverse effects in a bad circle and hurt your grandchildren. 5 o/ I1 L! h2 ]- f$ f) Y q
0 @( ^# i1 D& T! V& A5.39.217.76八、不要因病痛而唉唉叫,有病要治病,領了藥要服藥,治不好的要忍耐。 " ]4 { d/ R9 ?6 v
Don’t cry over sickness, just go to see a doctor and take the necessary medical pills as prescribed, and be patient if failed to cure. tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb( T: R' f, L& R x' p
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Don’t be skeptical to others too much, be grateful to the person who left around you, otherwise, he will go away from you too eventually. ) j- B- v E4 l. k: h# h) k8 C: L0 t
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十、要多多親近神,有堅定的信仰,對未來抱著開心、樂觀的態度。 公仔箱論壇" `* Y4 R+ y, Y8 r3 ]+ R/ i; @
Participate in religious activities often, be stick to belief and take pleasant, optimistic attitudes toward the future.
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如果以上十點,每一點是十分,祝福各位聰明的老人,都能幸福一百分。
( A. X5 r+ w: N1 t) d5.39.217.76If each item of these ten taboos above counts a score of ten, wish you all so intelligent to get a lucky one hundred. |